And every year as I stand on
the grass directly behind the curved, charcoal-gray wall, I'm always struck by
a combination of reverence and awe while watching the older generation of
soldiers facing forward during the annual Veterans Day observance, their
jackets boldly proclaiming the names and emblems of the military branches in
which they served our country.
The ceremony is always the
same: various elected officials, a congressman or councilperson - but always
the mayor - offer words of praise and thanks. There's always a special guest
speaker (last year it was Municipal Judge Patrick Dugan) and an honor guard of
khakied, aging warriors, standing with stoic dignity while bearing colorful
flags. The rifle team's 21-gun salute pierces the crisp fall air, followed by
the traditional, somber "Taps."
The touching moments are the
same, too, as the once-young men, humbled by passing decades and graying hair,
greet each other with affectionate smiles, hugging like long-lost brothers.
Gold Star moms, easily identifiable by their gold-rimmed white caps signifying
a son lost in battle, totter about the amphitheater on canes, in bereaved
solitude.
But what's also the same is
the absence of men and women like me in their 40s and 50s who have been largely
untouched directly by the loss and horror of armed conflict.
We late- and post-baby
boomers - those who have and have not served - owe a debt to these veterans as Vietnam , the only war this nation has ever lost,
was America 's
last innocent war.
Because of Vietnam , never again would our political leaders
be issued a blank check to cast America 's
finest unabated and without question into harm's way. Because of Vietnam ,
whose veterans were denied a welcoming parade of thanks, never again would our
soldiers in uniform be greeted with scorn and contempt upon arrival back home.
And yet, last year, among the
200 or so gathered to pay tribute to those who gave the ultimate sacrifice, the
absence of middle-aged adults - or anyone under 30 - was as dismaying as it was
obvious.
Along with the names of the
646 Philadelphians etched into the memorial's polished granite walls is the
motto, "It is our duty to remember," a lesson apparently not imparted
on the post-Vietnam generations who ignore - or, most noticeably, teens who
ignominiously skateboard around or vandalize - what should be exalted ground.
In his last official
appearance before Congress concluding his 52 years of service to the nation,
Gen. Douglas MacArthur quoted the refrain of a military ballad, declaring,
"Old soldiers never die, they just fade away."
Let's hope we render those
words untrue for the Vietnam
veteran. They, and all our veterans, deserve so much more from the rest of us.